Resources

Healing doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Here are some resources I trust, including for moments of crisis, deeper learning, and finding the right support.

24/7 Crisis Resources

if you or someone you know is in crisis

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call/text 988 or chat online

  • Crisis Text Line: text HOME to 741741 or chat online

  • The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ youth crisis support): call 1-866-488-7386, text START to 678678, or chat online

  • Trans Lifeline - call (877) 565-8860 (available Mon-Fri 10am-6pm PT)

  • RAINN (Sexual assault hotline) - call (800) 656-4673, text HOPE to 64673, or chat online

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: call (800) 799-7233, text START to 88788, or chat online

Local (San Francisco)

  • Asian Women’s Shelter: call (877) 751-0880

  • San Francisco Night Ministry: call (844) 467-3473 (available everyday 6pm-12am PT)

Books I recommend

Books I’ve read that have made an impact on my own understanding about healing

  • What My Bones Know - Stephanie Foo

  • Trauma & Recovery - Judith Lewis Herman

  • It’s OK That You’re Not OK - Megan Devine

Identity & Belonging

  • Where I Belong - Soo Jin Lee

  • Permission to Come Home - Jenny T. Wang

  • On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous - Ocean Vuong

Parts Work & Self-Understanding

Trauma & Healing

  • No Bad Parts - Richard C. Schwartz

  • Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay Gibson

Attachment & Relationships

  • Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment - Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

Creative Healing

  • Tarot for Change - Jessica Dore

Podcasts & Media

TV & Film

  • Dìdi (弟弟) (film)

  • Minari (film)

  • Beef (TV series)

  • Inside Out 1 & 2 (film)

  • One South: Portrait of a Psych Unit (documentary)

Podcasts

Online Tools & Apps

Helpful online mental health tools and apps

  • The Feelings Wheel: To help you find words to your feelings

  • Finch: A cute self-care app

  • Habitica: Gamify self-care

  • Emmo: A minimalist daily mood tracker app

  • DailyBean: A simple diary app to help you log your day

Low-Cost & Sliding Scale Services

If cost is a barrier, these local organizations offer sliding scale or low-cost services

Greenlight Clinic
Free counseling for 14-26 year olds in the SF Bay Area

Golden Gate Integral Counseling Center
Sliding scale therapy for adults, children, couples, & families in the SF Bay Area

SF Therapy Collective
Sliding scale LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in SF

Well Clinic
Affordable therapy for the uninsured and underemployed in SF

Therapist Directories

if I’m not the right fit, these directories can help you find someone who is: