Resources

Healing doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Here are some resources I trust, including for moments of crisis, deeper learning, and finding the right support.

Crisis Resources

if you or someone you know is in crisis

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline - call or text 988 (available 24/7)

  • Crisis Text Line - text HOME to 741741

  • The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ youth crisis support) - call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678

  • Trans Lifeline - 1-877-565-8860

  • RAINN (Sexual assault hotline) - 1-800-656-4673

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline -1-800-656-4673

Local (San Francisco)

  • Asian Women’s Shelter - 1-877-751-0880

  • San Francisco Night Ministry - 415-441-0123

Books I recommend

books I’ve read that I keep coming back to

  • The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der Kolk

  • What My Bones Know - Stephanie Foo

  • Trauma & Recovery - Judith Lewis Herman

  • It’s OK That You’re Not OK - Megan Devine

Identity & Belonging

  • Where I Belong - Soo Jin Lee

  • Permission to Come Home - Jenny T. Wang

  • On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous - Ocean Vuong

Parts Work & Self-Understanding

Trauma & Healing

  • No Bad Parts - Richard C. Schwartz

  • Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay Gibson

Attachment & Relationships

  • Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment - Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

Creative Healing

  • Tarot for Change - Jessica Dore

Podcasts & Media

Low-Cost & Sliding Scale Services

If cost is a barrier, these local organizations offer sliding scale or low-cost services

Greenlight Clinic
Free counseling for 14-26 year olds in the SF Bay Area

Golden Gate Integral Counseling Center
Sliding scale therapy for adults, children, couples, & families in the SF Bay Area

SF Therapy Collective
Sliding scale LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in SF

Well Clinic
Affordable therapy for the uninsured and underemployed in SF

Therapist Directories

if I’m not the right fit, these directories can help you find someone who is: